Finding Your Big O

There's never one way to skin a cat (we all have a sense of humor right?). Being I am no spring chicken, I believe you have to crawl before you walk. In order to understand how your body works, you have to spend time with it. Getting to know yourself, watching a few videos, touching a few spots. Just like a new car, you have to figure out what makes you drive.

Don's shy away from the project, self sexual exploration should be nothing but fun. Through my own experience-I have found that we all have certain senses that play into our arousal and can get us to the point of erupting before we the build the volcano. Some people are all about the strokes, while others are in-tuned with the spirit of their partner, and some turn from spicy to sizzling because attentive arousal- four play. Figure out what really gets you going, once you do, be sure to tell your partner (wink wink).

Still don't know where to start? Cosmopolitan's 2017 article by Jennifer Benjamin on sexual positions for orgasms will give you 7 ways to try: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a5528/your-orgasm-guaranteed/